What is the proper smoking ettiquette for smoking cigarettes when with my bf?
May 26, 2010 - 8:35 am
Ok, my new bf is not a cigarette smoker and said he would never ever ever date one. But, he is dating me, lol. How do I keep him happy and accepting of me…I have told him never ever to nag me cuz I do not want to quit..so, if I want to keep him…what is the proper ettiquette…and do you like it when guys light your cigarettes for you
Just don’t burn him.
May 26th, 2010 at 2:07 pm
to not smoke around him….
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May 26th, 2010 at 2:23 pm
if he’s not a smoker, don’t do it around him. Excuse yourself when you need to smoke.
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May 26th, 2010 at 2:39 pm
you’ll have to discuss that with him, mate. none of us know him.
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May 26th, 2010 at 3:00 pm
Just don’t smoke around him.
I am the same way,
I would not want a guy that smoked.
But if for whatever reason I had one,
I would want him to keep it far away from me.
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May 26th, 2010 at 3:43 pm
don’t smoke around him – i like it when anyone lights my cigarette when i don’t have a lighter :p
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May 26th, 2010 at 4:24 pm
Just don’t burn him.
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May 26th, 2010 at 4:46 pm
Just try not to smoke in front of him or not at all when your around him.
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May 26th, 2010 at 4:59 pm
Like previous posts say, try not to smoke around him. Try to have gum handy for after your cigarette. It’s really funky for a non-smoker to kiss a smoker. For the love of god, chew gum afterwards.
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May 26th, 2010 at 5:46 pm
so now is the time to quit
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May 26th, 2010 at 6:19 pm
I wouldn’t smoke around him. go outside. And keep some gum or Listerine strips handy, and a little bottle of body spray or perfume. I quit for a few weeks a while back and the smell from other fellow smokers was really irritating.
Wow, Blue is really a b i t c h huh? She should have a cigarette and calm the eff down.
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May 26th, 2010 at 6:31 pm
The proper etiquette is not to smoke in his presence, to use mouthwash afterwards before meeting with him.
If it’s a long date and you just gotta go have one, excuse yourself, smoke only outside where he cannot see and smell it, wait several minutes before going back to where he is so some of the strong smell can dissipate, wash hands and chew minty gum.
And no, I don’t like for a guy to light my cigarette, just hand me the lighter!
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May 26th, 2010 at 7:21 pm
don’t smoke in the first place it’s bad for your lungs
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May 26th, 2010 at 7:39 pm
Don’t smoke around him, just excuse yourself go somewhere where he is not have your cigarette then return. if your concern is for smell carry some spray perfume or something and perhaps some breathments. Don’t hide it from him just let him know what your doing,then go do it. Just be honest and thoughtful of him. That should do . Consider giving up the nasty things. Have a nice day.
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The Bible in the sermon on the mount Jesus Said do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Luke 6:36
May 26th, 2010 at 8:28 pm
always ask if he minds if you have a smoke and if you too are in a conversation or something and dont want to excuse yourself just ask if you can move the convo to outside
obviously dont blow smoke in his face, so watch the wind directions. also dont smoke too close to the enterances incase the smoke travels inward.
make sure to have a proper ash tray, whether it be a cup with sand it or a plastic dish, dont just let your ashes fall onto the ground.
if you smoke inside try keeping an air fresher around
always keep gum or mints handy
also since he does not smoke dont expect him to grab your lighter or buy you some. understand that your smoking is your business you respect his choice and that you can take responsibly.
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both my aunts smoke
May 26th, 2010 at 9:16 pm
my ex gf never lit my cigs for me..but on ocassion she would get one out for me….
but if he doesnt like it…dont smoke around him…i did that with my ex…cus she didnt smoke and didnt like it….but if we were together all day (and i cant go all day w/out a cig…impossible)…we would go to the lake or park or somewhere open …so i could smoke outside …so the smoke wasnt so bothering…
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May 26th, 2010 at 10:06 pm
You should excuse yourself for a few minutes when you need to smoke. If you were my girlfriend I would let you smoke next to me. I would even light them for you. I enjoy women that smoke.
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May 26th, 2010 at 10:14 pm
Here, I made a squidoo page about how to quit smoking, There is alot of good info there.
http://www.squidoo.com/RAllender
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May 26th, 2010 at 10:26 pm
My now-husband said the same thing. He doesn’t like it, but accepts it. When someone is in a relationship, they do it knowing such flaws (for the most part.) If, like me, you don’t WANT to quit yet, I’d suggest not smoking inside if you live together, stand a few feet away from him if you smoke outside near him, be careful to blow the smoke away from him, and carrying some strong breath mints. You can also get febreeze to spray on your clothes to not smell like smoke. I wouldn’t recommend perfume cause it just mixes with the smell. Trust me, it’s gross.
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Personal Experience